How To manage a successful school part 2


Mostly for the private schools.


1: create a standard curriculum for your school. Your school should have a scheme for each class.teachers should not come with their own scheme instead, the teacher should use your school scheme and add their ideas to compliment it.if it’s a law in your State to follow the government scheme then you can blend it with your school scheme for effective results for your students.


• Disadvantage of allowing your teachers to introduce different scheme.
Teachers are like any other employees in an organization it can call for quitting the job at anytime, it’s normal for such issue to occur in a schools. the teacher might leave the school immediately, this is where the problem comes in, there will be need for a new teacher.in a case where the teacher was using his/her scheme that particular class the teacher was teaching will be affected if the teacher leaves with the scheme,when the school employ a new staff with a new scheme.


The new teacher introduces another scheme, at this point the kids will find it difficult to adapt to the new scheme and method of teaching. A new face,a new scheme and new method of teaching.

Disadvantage
1: Introduction to a different scheme
2: Different method of teaching might apply
3: unstable system of teaching and learning

Advantage of creating your own scheme
1: Stable method of teaching
2: Setting standard in the school
3: Effective method of teaching and learning.


• Avoid regular replacement of teachers
Many schools are into this system, every session they must replace a teacher, and they do not care to about the effect this can cause their organization and the students.


Disadvantage
1: students find difficulties in learning and adapting to the new method of teaching.
2: lack of communication, some students find it difficult to get acquainted to their teachers at the beginning but when they do, it becomes a great union.they took time to study their teachers to know what they like and their dislikes. The same way the teacher have to study them also. This period of getting to know each other, some kids do not value what the teacher is giving until they get to know you. That is the right time they Will see value in what the teacher is offering.


• Effective communication between parents and teachers: parents are the cheapest means of advertisement, take it or leave it.if your school is of a standard and the students are social, academic and emotional equip.your school will keep increasing without your knowledge or advertising.
Also for the teachers, when there is effective communication between you and parent, they will work with you and you will achieve success in your classroom, especially when you have a struggling child, strong-willed etc. you will need a lot of support from home.


4: AVOID SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH SOME Group of parents: parents are just like a food chain, they have their own chain that lead from one parent to another, if you disclose a secret of any kind about your school to any of them.be ready for it to go around.the same way they advertise your school.

• Possible ingredients to improve your classroom

As a teacher in every end of the school year, your achievement and that of your students should be measure in other to identify the area you were lacking or where your students were lacking too. So that they can be room for improvement for the new year.create good relationship with your students parents.

1: Effective lessons plan; adjusting the lesson plan according to your learner reaction to meet everyone needs.when you are able to plan an effective lesson, it will help you reduce extra work on some areas.


2: Add fun into your teaching method; gone a days teaching used to be only teacher’s center .it is now both teacher and students,there is no way you can be teaching and your kids are not excited about your lesson,they will not gain anything at the end of the lesson.so a teacher have to incorporate fun in it, make class interactive, give them a chance to contribute, create group games, take them out on a field trip.

3: Create a well conducive environment for your students.this is one of my favorite thing I do for my students, I make sure that I’m the first person in my class, I set my prayers, arrange my table , chair and work for the day. Before my students begins to come in. I stood at the door to received them.and as they’re coming in I make sure we exchange pleasantries at the door. That has becomes one of my habit, and I love listening to their little stories, from that door our conversation begins.with that I’m able to teach with ease for that day.

How To teach Your child to be smart


Children are gift from God,He gives them to us to keep the light in our home sparkling,they are like the flowers in the garden without the flowers in the garden the garden will turn a desert and the gardener will not have much work to do.


So you see parents are just like that gardener that is taking care of the flowers (kids) it is a lot of work to do.but even in the midst of this job, you’re still happy to do them because they brought illumination into your home,they make it sparkling and fun.even when you’re angry and tired their little voices can still put a smile on your lips.


So many people now a days believe that training kids is a very difficult task to do.yeah… sometimes its seems that way but the other time it’s becomes easy.but the point is the way you train your child that the steps the child will grow up with.he / she will walk on that path.


1 : Teach your kids how to keep their personal belongings safe
At the early age teach your kids how to gather the toys after playing, get a basket and create a space in the corner of the house for the basket, when your child is done playing with the toys mum go pick the toy and tell your child to do the same thing,in that way you’re teaching that child how to keep things in appropriate place.


2; Teach your kids social skills
Like how to play with other kids without fighting, how to be satisfied with their own things, listen without interrupting,use the magic words, especially I’m sorry and help their friends without requesting something in return.


3: Introduce your kids to school early
They don’t need to go to school before they can identify some letters, numbers and learn other good manners, you can home school them .get the building blocks, pictures and object teach them at your spare time.this will help your kids to have idea of school even at home.


4: Minimize the time they spend in front of the television
According to the research too much time on the screen has effect on the kids.the period of time they spend before the screen should be limited to 2/3 hours a day.encourage your kids to be creative, the world is fast growing with the use of technology. Encourage them to learn computer programming and many more.


5: Teach your kids morals
especially relating with friends, siblings without fight.
The world could be a peaceful place if parents can instill morals value into their kids.if you were not thought, you can make a decision to train your kids differently.read books, watch videos on morals and strive to build a peaceful home.

How to deal with your students complaint


As a teacher when your studentsh lodge a complaint it a signal that a students is going to through difficult time.althought nothing is wrong with a student lodging a complaint, some time their complaints might even help by prompting you to modify a classroom activity or practice but when it becoming too much, that is when it calls for a serious measure to be taken. Students with such problem might be going through the following


a) Feeling helpless; the students need your encouragement to look at the bright side of life.direct the students attention to something positive, praise the students when they makes an effort to solve a problem, that might be the way of helping such child to get on track.


b) Lonely; the teacher need to listen and respond to those complaints and comfort the student, that might be a way of gaining your attention and getting back on his or her feet


c) Feeling worthless; when a student feels worthless that means such students emotion has been tempered with, you need to engage that students with private talk. Let such students know that your office is always open for he or she at all times to come in with whatever is bothering them.you are always ready to help.


 Are you willing to accept feelings, habits or beliefs that is different from yours?


The key to success in this ministry is being able to accept others. Become totally like the little kids(100% satisfied), ready to roll on the floor with the kids, forget about your palace, learn to tolerate their feelings, habits and beliefs.take time to talk about their personal lives, believes and culture, It is the way of creating connection for students from different cultures and backgrounds to feel comfortable and ready to learn in the Same environment,without converting yourself from your believed it might be difficult to handle the kids now you believe in nothing, which means you just want to be like them. The scripture says can two work together, accept they agreed?so you have to agree with who they are first, value their culture, accept their feelings in order to successfully conveyed your message to the class without interruption

The understanding between you and your students will bring a successful conversation in the classroom.


 How is your reaction when they make a maze in the class.


They are coming from diverse background and their understanding differs from yours, before preparing to go into this. you should be willing to tolerate someone maze, they are imperfect, they do naughty things most times, believing that is the best at that point. at that time, you will be like oh ….my God! what on earth is this!You may feel like running out of the classroom, that isn’t the solution, your mind should be ready at all times to embrace such moment, it is part of the job. You should be able to endure in and out of the classroom, ability to control your expression before the kids matters.

Stay safe teachers,🤗

Secret to your kids success

Picture by my little boy


Children are the most wonderful people to be with but at the same time difficult to understand in some aspects, if you don’t understand their Little life style you will find it very tasking to manage them. It will be easy to follow them only if you will bring yourself low to their level.
However some parents treat their kids like they are in the same age range.they have totally forgotten that they’re still kids and need to be treated as one.it is the foundation the parent lay that is where they will step on and become successful life.


Possible ways that can hinder your kids success.


Uncontrollable emotion: some parents believe it is normal to yell at their kids Every time they misbehave and they forgotten that they are depositing bad character inside of the child in future you don’t expect them to stay calm when they get upset too because they have been watching you all through. In order to become a good role model for your kids you need to control your emotion.


• Home violent: most parents do not know the
implication of fighting with their spouse in presence of their kids, this home violent leaves a lot of kids with scar in their mind for a long time, this also can hinder your kids from achieving certain things in their lives like the way they relate with others, even the way they act as a child even in the future as an adult. Children from such home in most cases do have relationship issues, struggle academically even in decision making.


• Bad names: where I Came from, most parents are fond of describing a child best on the situation surrounding that child. For example the child behave in abnormal way they will give the child name best on That child’s behavior or any other physical challenge, the will give a name that is suitable for that problem, ‘big head’ that’s means the child Head is abnormal and they will assume, that is the reason why the child is lacking behind because of the shape of the head but forgot that it is the emotional trauma they are putting the child through that is effecting the child’s success not really the child situation.


Ways to your to kids success

Picture draw by Sophie
Secret to your kids success

Children are the most wonderful people to be with but at the same time difficult to understand in some aspect, if you don’t understand their Little life style you will find it very tasking to manage them. It will be easy to follow them only if you will bring yourself low to their level.

However some parents treat their kids like they are in the same age range.they have totally forgotten that they’re still kids and need to be treated as one.it is the foundation the parent lay that is where they will step on and be successful.

Possible ways that can hinder your kids success.

· Uncontrollable emotion: some parents believe it is normal to yell at their kids Every time they misbehave and they forgotten that they are depositing bad character inside of the child in future you don’t expect them to stay calm when they get upset too because they have been watching you all through. In order to become a good role model for your kids you need to control your emotion.

· Home violent: most parents do not know the

 implication of fighting with their spouse in presence of their kids, this home violent leaves a lot of kids with scar in  their mind for a long time, this also can hinder your kids from achieving certain things in their lives like the way they relate with others, even the way they act as a child even in the future as an adult. Children from such home in most cases do have relationship issues, struggle academically even in decision making.

· Bad names: where I Came from, most parents are fond of describing a child best on the situation surrounding that child. For example the child behave in abnormal way they will give the child name best on That  child’s behavior or any other physical challenge, the will give a name that is suitable for that problem, ‘big head' that’s means the child Head is abnormal and they will assume, that is the reason why the child is lacking behind because of the shape of the head but forgot that it is the emotional trauma they are putting the child through that is effecting the child’s success not really the child situation.

 Ways to your kids success

· Build a peaceful home; a peaceful life is the secret to a successful life, being nurtured in a peaceful environment is one of the best step to a successful adult. Being brought up in a place in which one feels accepted and comfortable is the beginning to greatness.

· Unconditional love; love they say over throne all hurts. Love rules, the amount of love you show to your kids create family bonds also added a lot of self value to your kids and increase their love to others. However this also encourage your kids to be the best in school and in the society.it helps them in building relationship with others and also prepare them to become a better father/mother in future.

· More of encouragement; encourage more than discouraging your kids, don’t always see the negative side of that idea they brings to your table, first think about the positive aspect of it and how that to help them to improve, allow them to make that  decision instead of creating fear in side of them.give your kids to opportunity to explore.


• Build a peaceful home; a peaceful life is the secret to a successful life, being nurtured in a peaceful environment is one of the best step to a successful adult. Being brought up in a place in which one feels accepted and comfortable is the beginning to greatness.


Unconditional love; love they say over throne all hurts. Love rules, the amount of love you show to your kids create family bonds also added a lot of self value to your kids and increase their love to others. However this also encourage your kids to be the best in school and in the society.it helps them in building relationship with others and also prepare them to become a better father/mother in future.


• More Encouragement; encourage more than discouraging your kids, don’t always see the negative side of that idea they brings to your table, first think about the positive aspect of it and how that can help them to improve, allow them to make that decision instead of creating fear in their mind.give your kids an opportunity to explore, and see how successful they will become in life.

What steps do you take when you encounter challenges

What steps do you take when you encounter challenges as a teacher


Most teacher do not understand this profession at a certain point. this ministry require Patience, every job has their own up and downs but teaching has more challenges, why, your class comprises of different people with differs situation, which calls on the attention of the teacher. If the teacher is incapable to take care of the situations, it becomes a problem. Some teachers do neglect kids that has issues, just for a smooth teaching without stress. That is a No no! What make you an effective teacher is the number of students that you are able to change their story positively.


I remember this colleague of mine, she doesn’t like any child with physical challenge, she had two of them in her class that year, she could do anything to avoid them, if they mistakenly offended her, she would dealt with them, they were in that class for complete a year, no positive effect, their parents were worried, they asked series of questions looking for an answer, my colleague couldn’t give them any good answer, because she was self centered not considering the kids emotions.a teacher is a motivator not self-centered person.
The second year I was asked to take up the same class, that child was asked to stay back in the same class, I was so shocked for what the girl in particular was going through, she was abuse emotionally, this girl was almost destroy, she believed she could not do anything on her own, she thought nothing good can come out of her. When I discovered that,I shade tears, why, (this is a teacher that is meant to instill confidence not scattered).

No child is born empty, scientist approved that, every child came to this world with half-full knowledge, so a teacher is to impact, build and nurture that half-full knowledge to become great. Jesus Christ says something, that he did not come for the saints but for the sinners, as a teacher your purpose for being in that particular class might be for that child that is struggling that is the way you should see it. If peradventure nothing is being change by you, that means you have failed to do your job as a teacher.


 Steps to take
a) Believe that all things are possible. If others can change lives you also can do more better.


b) Motivation; motivates yourself, this works wonders,it is only you that can tell yourself the truth.


c) Prayers; prayers can move mountains, God never fails, if you call on him with a sincere heart, no situation he can not change.


d) Be patient: this is one of the most important aspect endure so many things will frustrate you, starting from your students, your boss, their parents, sometimes even your colleagues. The school will be counting on you, their parents will be expecting you to perform magic, which is not possible, there is no Short cut to success,any house that is not properly built will surely collapse some day. back then I used to tell my students parents(it is not how far but how well)my child is in primary, nursery so so.. what is your child performance, is the child balance academically? As an effective teacher you don’t have to be disturb do your best and expect the best .


e) Be confident: a teacher should be able to measure her worth. I once got a job in a particular school, my students parents were on my neck, all I was hearing was our children former teacher was doing a very fantastic job, we do not want someone that will come and drag our children back. If I was not confidence of myself,I could have quit the job, the threat was too much, the first two weeks, I spent there was something else, I was sure of what I can do, I was praying and also working, then told my boss to tell them to give time, if before the end of the session no different, then they can talk,by then I will freely quite but to the glory of God during the school open -day they were all testifying. you too can do it, stop looking at the challenges, begin to see the beautiful thing you will achieve at the end.

When can a Father stop bathing his daughter

This is not a big deal but due to quick growth and development. Lot of kids has rapid growth whereby so many parts of the body develop so fast, also the changes took place earlier than expected, father should stay out and allow the child to take fully responsibility of her body.


Why can’t a Father bath a child regardless the age
In our society today some many things are happening like sexual abuses, a lot of kids have been abuse by the members of the family so no one is to be trusted not even father.that is the reason the father should stop as soon as possible.


Reason
To prevent sexual abuse: don’t be surprise, this generation Fathers are not to be trusted, they’re he goats in humans form. They can not do without seeing anything under skirt. In order to avoid unforeseen circumstances or stories keep them away as early as possible.
At the age of 5 the father should stop bathing for his daughter.


Parents should train their kids at early age on how to bath by his/herself.
Begin at the age of three years old(3)start communicating with your child while bathing. Teach the child the uses of everything from the beginning. Example Sponge,soap,towel etc.

Never stop checking on the child,5years is still young, the child still need support so you can stand by the side to observe what your child is doing until he/she is perfect. This is applicable to other kids too not just the daughter.

The perfect age to start should be from 11years old,by that time the child should be able to take fully responsibility of his or her body without parents supervision.

How To Prepare Lesson


A teacher should be able to prepare an effective lesson, your students attention span is low, it is the estimated to be 15_25minutes only, it is difficult to hold your students attention for too long.so careful preparation of work is very necessary


a. Rehearse your presentation in advance before the lesson
b. Obtain all materials, tools, equipment, visual and teaching aids in advance.
c. Have all materials within reach and conveniently arranged, ready to display.
d. Time the demostration,it should not exceed 15minutes.
e. Remove all extraneous materials.
f. Plan to use a skill or a method to advantage word from simple to complex, one step at a time.


 How to present your lesson


a. Make sure all students can see and hear the lesson
b. Be enthusiastic, professional, effective but not too dramatic
c. Relax, use any mishaps or humour to your advantage
d. Observe all safety rules and procedures.
e. Keep eye contact with the class, ask and encourage class questions.
f. Use a medial summary to strengthen your explanation.

REFLECTION POINT
There are two people involved, the giver and a receiver, you’re the giver and your students are the receivers, likewise a starting point and ending point, what will be your account at the end, how many fixed assets have you invest in, and how many is left and how many can you account for, What will be your reward at the end, will you be issue a sack Letter, or promotion letter? Or like that man in the scripture, the master went on a trip, he called the three servants and gave them each a talent to keep until he returns, the first he gave five talent and two to the second, the last he gave one, the two servants traded with their own but the last went and digged ground and buried his own,, when the master returns, he celebrated the other two servants and called the third servant slothful, peradventure your master calls you today, what account can you give to him would you be like the first servant or the third one? Use your tongue to count your teeth(I mean solve the equation by yourself), remember you will give an account!

Teach well, teaching is a ministry,one day you will be call to give an account on how you teach every Kids that pass through your classroom.

How To Give Your Kids A Brighter Day

Parents should put into consideration the manner in which they wake their kids up to tackle the day activities.
How Do you Wake Your kids Up For The Day.


The way and Manner you wake your kids up for the day Matters a lot.
As a parent/guidance the manner you wake your kids up for the day activity can have a negative or positive effect on your kids.the way you wake your kids up determine their willingness to tackle the day with a positive attitude which as well influence the way they learn, act and engage in their daily activities.


How do you wake your child up so that it will not have a negative effect on the child


• Wake up first and give yourself enough time to have a good morning, so this makes it easy for you to wake your kids up with a good attitude.
• Wake kids up with songs like The day is bright….

I’m awake, alive, alert…enthusiastic..
Singing and smiling, she will also smile from sleep with a lot of motivation and ready to Flow into the day..


• Greet your kids, like…my little angel or prince charming good morning with tickling and cuddling.
• Give your kids a realistic time to fully come back to life like 2 or 3 minutes, so that it doesn’t look like your breaking into his/ her sleep.


• Set the child up for the day, especially on a school days, this will help your kids to stay happy and energetic through out the day, ready to Flow with others.
On weekends allow them to sleep and wake up willingly.