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When can a Father stop bathing his daughter

This is not a big deal but due to quick growth and development. Lot of kids has rapid growth whereby so many parts of the body develop so fast, also the changes took place earlier than expected, father should stay out and allow the child to take fully responsibility of her body.


Why can’t a Father bath a child regardless the age
In our society today some many things are happening like sexual abuses, a lot of kids have been abuse by the members of the family so no one is to be trusted not even father.that is the reason the father should stop as soon as possible.


Reason
To prevent sexual abuse: don’t be surprise, this generation Fathers are not to be trusted, they’re he goats in humans form. They can not do without seeing anything under skirt. In order to avoid unforeseen circumstances or stories keep them away as early as possible.
At the age of 5 the father should stop bathing for his daughter.


Parents should train their kids at early age on how to bath by his/herself.
Begin at the age of three years old(3)start communicating with your child while bathing. Teach the child the uses of everything from the beginning. Example Sponge,soap,towel etc.

Never stop checking on the child,5years is still young, the child still need support so you can stand by the side to observe what your child is doing until he/she is perfect. This is applicable to other kids too not just the daughter.

The perfect age to start should be from 11years old,by that time the child should be able to take fully responsibility of his or her body without parents supervision.

How To Give Your Kids A Brighter Day

Parents should put into consideration the manner in which they wake their kids up to tackle the day activities.
How Do you Wake Your kids Up For The Day.


The way and Manner you wake your kids up for the day Matters a lot.
As a parent/guidance the manner you wake your kids up for the day activity can have a negative or positive effect on your kids.the way you wake your kids up determine their willingness to tackle the day with a positive attitude which as well influence the way they learn, act and engage in their daily activities.


How do you wake your child up so that it will not have a negative effect on the child


• Wake up first and give yourself enough time to have a good morning, so this makes it easy for you to wake your kids up with a good attitude.
• Wake kids up with songs like The day is bright….

I’m awake, alive, alert…enthusiastic..
Singing and smiling, she will also smile from sleep with a lot of motivation and ready to Flow into the day..


• Greet your kids, like…my little angel or prince charming good morning with tickling and cuddling.
• Give your kids a realistic time to fully come back to life like 2 or 3 minutes, so that it doesn’t look like your breaking into his/ her sleep.


• Set the child up for the day, especially on a school days, this will help your kids to stay happy and energetic through out the day, ready to Flow with others.
On weekends allow them to sleep and wake up willingly.